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Next doors property has damaged our property. Next door wont pay for damage. Who is being unreasonable?

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LunchLadyWannabe · 15/02/2014 21:00

On thursday next when it was very windy, dh van alarm went off. It is on the drive. Dh goes out to the van and it has a tile on the bonnet, and a smashed window screen. There is also a tile on the garden of next doors house.

Two tiles has fallen off next doors roof.

Dh went next door and informed the lady (elderly lady) who was very apologetic and said she would contact her landlady ( a family friend of hers) straightaway.

Dh left his details with the lady next door.

Landlady rang about half hour later and said to dh that she would contact her insurance first thing in the morning.

Next morning, a roofer arrived and confirmed that the tiles were from next door and had come off due to poor maintenance of the roof.

Landlady contacts dh to tell him that her insurance wont pay out as "its an act of god" and basically said its just unfortunate.

The window screen has been replaced at a cost of £250. We have had to pay for this.

Dh contacts the roofer to ask him to put in writing what he told dh so dh could take it further. The roofer refused and said he didnt want to get involved, and told dh that he had been paid "as a foreigner" for the job and basically hadnt been paid enough to deal with this.

The landlady next door has asked dh not to contact her further regarding this. She doesnt care that we are out of pocket, its just one of those things!

Are we being unreasonable to expect the landlady to pay for the damage or at least pay half?

I feel really angry about this.

OP posts:
LunchLadyWannabe · 16/02/2014 16:49

Joy

That is a very good idea what you suggested!

OP posts:
tiggytape · 16/02/2014 16:58

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mercibucket · 16/02/2014 17:06

ok go ahead and try to bully someone into paying for something that is not their responsibility to pay for.
presumably they will double check with their insurance company and find out you are bluffing
nice moral highground

thecatneuterer · 16/02/2014 18:40

Even if her roof were in poor condition before the storm damage I don't see how this could be regarded as her fault. After all, in normal circumstances, if your roof is a bit crap then you may get some rain coming in. The only person to suffer is you.

I imagine that a roof tile will have had to have travelled some to have landed on your car, and it will probably take 80mph winds to do that. So this has been caused by the storm regardless of the condition of her roof. And as everyone has said, even brand new rooves can lose tiles in these conditions.

Not everything in life is someone's fault. Sometimes, like it or not, things just happen.

HarryTheHungryHippo · 16/02/2014 18:40

ok go ahead and try to bully someone into paying for something that is not their responsibility to pay for.
presumably they will double check with their insurance company and find out you are bluffing
nice moral highground

Hmm really? It's not the ops fault either, why should they be out of pocket for damage done by someone else's property?

thecatneuterer · 16/02/2014 18:44

Harry - it's also not the fault of the house owner. The OP's property is the one with the damage, through no fault of ANYONE AT ALL, that is why it is the OP who will unfortunately need to pay. And that is what insurance is for.

tiggytape · 16/02/2014 19:34

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MummytoMog · 16/02/2014 20:40

Neighbour's poorly maintained tree (dead, thanks to giant pond poisoning roots) fell and smashed our fence panel and shed. We split the cost of removing it and left it at that. Nobody could predict those winds and it's an arse but neither of us wanted to bother with insurance.

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