All I want to do is protect ds and myself from exp and his nasty violent ways. Back story a lot to go into and reason to believe he was in my house whilst I was out last week. He has had me scared out of my wits feeling stressed, anxious and nervous. I can't take this anymore I need to leave just go, I've had enough. few days before xmas I went to court to obtain a non molestation order as he had turned up at the house shouting,swearing and kicking the front door saying he wanted to see ds and that I was a stupid cunt for not answering the door. Contact has stopped on my part due to his recent conviction,suspended sentence for domestic violence against his exp and him telling ds to go and hit me in the face upsetting ds as he couldn't understand why exp told him to hit his mum. Solicitor is sorting out supervised contact.
Order was granted then we had to go back for a hearing where he could contest it. He started to shout at the judge that he had a witness and how it was a waste of his time being in the court and that the judge shouldn't even grant the order. The judge asked him to type out his witness statement properly as he had hand written it so the judge wouldn't accept it. By the way the whole statement was made up lies from a person that was even there at the time. The Judge then asked him if he wanted to contest the order to which he said I can't be bothered and stormed out of the court throwing his chair back behind him. It took a lot for me to go to court as being in the same room as him frightens me.
Today I get a letter from my solicitor telling me I now have to attend court as ex now wants to vary the non mol order.
I cant do this anymore, I just want him to stop and leave me alone, I don't need this on top of being treated for depression,anxiety,ptsd and now a potential surgery to an on-going injury. Apologies for the grammar mistakes.