I received a real cross section of answers to my first ever AIBU; some more sympathetic than others!
Anyway, as it caused so much :O, I thought I'd update. However, I can't link, as my browser just shuts down whenever I try :-/ (I found it byv searching for 'phone' and my name).
I realised my only option was to move, but also felt this was unrealistic, due to having no money for deposit, agent's fees etc. But we found a long term private rent, and we're so relieved and happy. landlord is happy to add extra on to the rent each month to make uo the deposit, and is in no hurry to sell, so Im not worried about having to renew/move every 6 months. After 5 years of being amongst awful, awful people, I'd forgotten that decent ones exist!
So, that's the good news...
Here's the bad, and wholly unshocking to anyone that saw the original thread, news. I sold the TV to pay for a hire van, and left it, and other stuff behind, as I'm still within the notice period on the old house. I arranged to meet the buyer therethe follfollowing day, only to find the back door kicked in, and the wall bracket empty. And the house phones gone, but the base still plugged in (so they could still be used next door!)
Yes, dear reader, the NDNs burgled me! :-/