I got a new job as a teacher in a fantastic private school recently. I have been out of teaching for 5 years since having dd and I was shocked by the workload. Also I was upset at loosing time with dd as I can no longer take her to do many of her activities. I was also feeling the pressure as my job is only temporary and will be advertised as permanent as I have to prove myself. There are also wired politics going on.
I split with my ex after the first week of my new job. Some of you may have read my thread about how he made it very clear he didn't have enough money to come and see me. He also went on about how I shouldn't be working so hard( most teachers have to plan and mark at night). What hurt me the most is that he said that I demonstrated my inconsistency as I was so excited about my new job but then so anxious and unsure when I started. Ainu to think that a mum returning to a full on job in a new place is likely to be stressed and anxious?
We met last night to exchange belongings and he said that I should have known what the workload was like. I said that I did but it is still a shock.
Is he an unsupportive arse or am I inconsistent? He was also talking about getting back together in the future but I think it's a no! He is bloody handsome though!