We have an elderly cat with hyperthyroidism and a very active and stinky bowel! She did go through a phase of pooing on the carpets and rug in the living room and on our bed. We have now become very diligent about keeping all doors closed so the cat doesn't have access to the rooms on her own - and the problem seemed to have stopped.
Last week DH was last up so shut all the doors before coming up to bed. DS was first up in the morning and went down to watch TV. When he opened the living room door he found that the cat had been locked inside all night. She'd pooed on one sofa and wee-d all over the other. I spent the weekend cleaning and scrubbing (using a carpet and upholstery cleaning machine) - but the smell is still there!
DH now tells me this morning that he feels very hurt that I seem to be blaming him for this.
I recognise that it was an accident - but I would have liked him to accept some responsibility for it. He knew (or should have done by now) to check the cat wasn't in the room before closing the door!
Am I being unreasonable?