To think my partner just isn't into this as much as I am because...

[Overthinkerzzz]

I ask them to come over in the week and my partner sometimes declines....she lives 30 minutes drive away and when she stays over she has to drive home early in the morning to get changed then go to work. (I don't drive and there is only one train a day to her village). We were due to go to the cinema tonight and she said she's not feeling it either....(I had said I have a heavy period and feeling meh).

I just feel like she doesn't miss me as much as I do but I'm being over the top aren't I?

We have been together for 9 months.

To be fair we do see eachother every weekend from Friday to Sunday evening. I'm being unreasonable aren't I? I would never voice this to her. I think I'm just being paranoid and over sensitive. She has never cheated or given me any reason to believe she has.

We used to email a LOT in work but now only a few times a day. I guess we are just settling down from honeymoon period?

I have been doing that this week :)

Hate how I can be so clingy and paranoid :(

It sounds really hard on you overthinking

In my experience the drop in constant contact/becoming a bit more relaxed about arrangements often happens at about this time but it normally coincides with feeling more settled and confident in the relationship.

Have you been hurt before in a previous relationship? That could be making you panic a bit about the drop in contact.