If you want a back story, its ' dumping offence' in the relationship board.
The shorter version is, i have had a few dates with a guy. I dont mention to people when im at the few dates stage, because more often than not it fizzles out and frankly its embarassing.
I had family over on sat afternoon, they saw various food in my fridge and worked out i was cooking for someone. I got riddiculed and a ton of ' keeping has a boyfriend' songs, a ton of questions. I just said there was nothing to tell and if there was they would know. They kept it up all afternoon, finding it very funny, and getting my dd in on the act.
A day later and ive dumped the guy. DD is going on and on still and family members keep asking how it went.
Ive had to come clean and say what happened. Ive explained this is exactly why i dont tell them until its at an ' official' stage and next time could they not do it as its not appropiate.
And ive started ww3. Mother called me and ton of names and hung up on me. which is really not what i needed right now at all.