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insensitive or am I oversensite?

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prettywoman78 · 26/01/2014 21:11

So I lost both my mum and dad in the last 10 years. My dad never got to meet our children and my mum only met ds1.
My dh's brother and his wife have just had their first child. We visited yesterday. She is adorable and of course mil is thrilled. Lots of photos were taken.
Dh posted one of our two dc and their new cousin. He tagged me in it and posted it as mum's grandchildren.
Deep down I know I am being oversensitive but it did hurt seeing it.
Aibu

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Viviennemary · 26/01/2014 21:53

I think it is reasonable for you to be sad that your parents did not see both their grandchildren. But they are the grandchildren of the other grandparents so I don't think the pictures were insensitive. But you were upset by them because that's natural. Flowers

prettywoman78 · 26/01/2014 22:42

Sorry for your loss too moveyourarms,

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Pimpf · 28/01/2014 21:50

Let him know how you feel, talk to him, he's not a mind reader. He may not bring it for fear of upsetting you.

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