DH friend is getting married later in the year. DH is the best man. I am due to give birth 6 weeks prior to the wedding.
DH is going away on stag weekend (abroad) when child is 3 weeks old. I don't mind this, but it is a factor in my current annoyance.
Wedding is in a really fancy hotel, about 50 miles from where we live. We aren't planning to bring the children anyway.
We were planning to stay 2 nights in fancy hotel, as DH has plans with the groom and other friends the day/evening before. I was happily going to relax in the hotel, maybe go to the spa, go for a nice walk, just relax child free. Spend the night together, and wake up on the morning of the wedding and take my time getting ready, relaxing breakfast by myself etc.
DH friend has now told him he's booked them a room for the night before (along with a third friend). So, DH is staying the night before, and I will just have to sort myself out in the morning and make my own way to the hotel, already dressed for the wedding (as check in is too late to get ready there).
I'm pissed off. AIBU? And if so, should I be pissed with DH? Is it really his fault? Should he say no, or should we be more accommodating to the plans of the groom?
For the purposes of not drip feeding;
- It's over £200 a night so I don't want to spend that on a room for the night before, by myself.
- I'm not friendly with the bride at all