So a year ago I met a man on a work related course, local to me but 4hrs travel for him. We got together and had a brief fling, a few months, obviously not seeing each other all that much because of the distance, with one weekend away (which is when I realised how incompatable we were and dumped him on return). We stayed friends/in contact because of the course. He met my DD's once, as a "friend".
Fast forward to this weekend. Another weekend course local to me. He messages asking if I fancy a meal out on the sat (ie tonight), I say we'll see, depends on childcare. I dont especially want to spend an evening with him, as I eventually found him boorish, arrogant and self absorbed, oh and tight....(and rubbish in bed)!
He messages me a few weeks ago to ask about dinner, and then drops in that actually his new girlfriend is coming with him for the weekend. Whew thinks I thats an easy out, as was thinking I would need to go out for dinner as he would be here by himself. I say no thats fine, probably be a bit awkward, enjoy with new GF, I'll see you on course.
So see him today, he again asks about dinner. I say no thanks, would be awkward, I wont have seen my DD's all weekend, DD1 has an sports competition tomorrow so will be nervous and would like to spend some time with her as I cant go tomorrow.
And he pushes all day, on and on, come on come out, will be nice to catch up, bring the DD's 
would love to see them again (WTF? he met them once!), at end of day I am rushing to go and get DD's, he walks out to car and carries on asking over and over, until I just rudely get in car and go.
He then texted me about 7 to see if I'd changed my mind.
Thats a bit weird no?? Or is my radar just completely buggered??