To expect to know if he is working late

[Iwannalaylikethisforever]

So fed up with feeling like I'm the last to know.... Anything. Dh doesn't talk about work. Too stressful, just wants to forget it when at home, it's 9pm is it too much to ask for him to ring or text that he will be working so late.
He is se so can leave when he chooses, I know he is busy and being se means he could in theory work 24 hours a day and still have things to do, but ffs he has a family too.
AIBU ?

YANBU. My DH is crap with phones but will txt to say if he's late...or sometimes just to tell me what time he'll be in. It's rude not to if you're cooking for them isn't it?

Have you told him how you feel?

Maureen it is rude isn't? I have mentioned this he says ohhh I get side tracked blah blah, but it seems he is just sitting around chatting, when I phone I just know there is someone there. I don't want to argue when he eventually gets in but I am seriously pissed off with this again.

What do you mean you know there is someone there? As in his colleagues?