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AIBU re people with dogs on path

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SatsumaSatsuma · 24/01/2014 20:27

I took my 4yo border terrier for a walk in the woods today. he is a real softy and a bit nervous of big dogs or groups of dogs. he is never aggressive and doesn't bark usually.

today we were on a woodland path and he stopped dead, and barked repeatedly, assuming a sort of stand off position. I called him, but he wouldn't come. 50m ahead of us were 2 people chatting with their 2 dogs. (the man was dressed in black and was standing on a sloping part of path, he had one leg bent and the other straight, in a kind of lunge position. ) after some minutes of me trying to coax my dog to go around the other to dogs, and the people, which involved going through low hanging branches/ undergrowth on a slope beside the path, it became apparent that my dog didn't like the man, and was unconcerned about the dogs, who had now ventured towards him.

at this point, we all realised that it was the man that my dog had the issue with not the other dogs. I apologised for my dog's barking and I joked that maybe it was the man's stance and said that he looked a bit like he was going into battle.

he said that it didn't bother him (ie my dog barking). they carried on chatting as if i wasnt there. it seemed like ages before my dog eventually followed me on my detour through the bushes, with his tail between his legs, and tbh it was quite stressful.

I realise that my dog is my responsibility and that he was technically behaving rather badly, however, AIBU to think that it might have been good dog walking etiquette for them not to have continued to block the path while I tried to deal with this situation?

would welcome views from doggy behaviour experts!

(my dog only once reacted like this before to a person- a man in balck, in a pub with a cap on but he stopped as soon as we told him not to bark)
TIA

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Pumpkin567 · 24/01/2014 21:23

If your dog was barking at me, I would expect you to call him back and leash him.
If you couldn't do this he shouldn't be off a lead.

I live in a dog walking area and it drives me mad. Do not let your dog run at me or bark at me ( it's agressive and MY dog will react badly to it) recall it.

The man has every right to stand on the path.

SatsumaSatsuma · 24/01/2014 21:30

pumpkin, i accept i should've put him on the lead. you don't think they should've stood to the side to let my aggressive dog pass?? they were taking up the whole width of the path.

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SatsumaSatsuma · 24/01/2014 21:40

re coming when called... my dog does one of 2 things. 98% of the time he comes, the other 2% eg he senses its the end of a walk and doesnt want to go back to the car, he puts his breaks on a stops still. i then have to walk back to him as he won't come, but he never ever runs away when i approach him. I'm not sure if pumpkin thinks that level of disobedience means he should never be off the lead!

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Jolleigh · 24/01/2014 21:44

Dog on lead, walk down the path with a quick 'excuse me' if they're properly blocking your way. I don't see why it's so difficult? Sounds like you had a combined fail of both common sense and common courtesy.

Pumpkin567 · 24/01/2014 21:45

No, sorry get it off the path. The person stood on that path is dependant on you to manage your animal. They have no idea how safe your dog is and have to trust your judgment.
I often see people that will leash their dog and take it well off path until you pass. ( not friendly dog :-) I'm grateful to them)

My dog will go round people, she has been taught to. ( she hates groups of dogs)

If you have a problem with your dog, you need to be loud about that and explain to people "oh she's not good with puppies or she hates red coats"

The point is, its your dogs issue and you need to manage it.

Pumpkin567 · 24/01/2014 21:51

My dog always comes back. She is trained to come back.

In answer to your question did you recall your dog? Did it come?
Did you ask It to stop barking? Did it stop?

If you answer no, then no, you do not have sufficient control to have a dog off a leAd.

That man may have been terrified of your dog.

SelectAUserName · 24/01/2014 21:59

To be fair to the OP, it doesn't sound like this was a regular or frequent "issue" - she says that the dog isn't usually a barker and is usually fine with people. I'm not disagreeing that the dog should have been put on his lead, but it doesn't sound as though this was something that would have been obvious to predict.

Our old Golden Retriever loved people and was absolutely trustworthy around them, but there was once - literally once, in her entire life - when she took a violent dislike to a man we passed on a walk and stood barking at him until I dragged her away, apologising. I admit there were a few seconds initially when I did nothing, because I was so stunned at her completely out-of-character behaviour.

I still maintain he was a dodgy character...

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