Last week I was unwell. Too ill to work so DD went off to the CMs as usual and I stayed in bed. I had the full encouragement of DH and the CM to do this (not that I could have prevented the vomiting etc if they didnt).
DH has been feeling under the weather and this morning when he woke I asked of he was feeling well enough to work or would he like me to drop DD at the CMs. He responded that it was easoer to be ill at work than at home with DD, to which I responded that DD wouldnt be here, Id tale her to the CMs.
His response - "oh no, I couldnt send her there and then be off work at home"
Erm, what?
I left, feeling like it was a dig at what I had done last week. He went to work.
Later in the morning I sent him a message saying I was upset at hos comment as i felt it was a slight on what I had done, and that I felt i credibly guilty at leaving dd when I was going to be home. The fact that he had encouraged it eased the guilt.
His response was that I had asked him first thing, he had barely had a chance to wake up, and that he would feel bad sending her for one of us to be off when it had happened the week prior.
He then sent "I accept your apology"
Grrrr.....
I havent apologised?!