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AIBU to expect to be able to SWIM in the lanes at the local swimming pool?!!

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VanGogogh · 22/01/2014 00:13

That's it really. Local pool has lane swimming every evening. 1/2 the pool is closed for lessons, there's one lane for adult lengths and then the rest is open for everyone.

I fully appreciate that not everyone is a strong swimmer. In my experience and until this week, the strong swimmers (think swimming lengths as a steady pace and not stopping) would pace up and down the lengths without worry of swimming into static people, and those who were leisurely swimming and chatting or resting, slow swimmers would enjoy the "general" area without worry that some crazy power swimmer would bash into them.

Sometimes the timings and speeds don't quite work out but we're all grown ups. We work around each other in a wonderfully British way.

I am, perhaps, still feeling very rilled by this. A trio of adults joined the lane. Each of them was only currently able to swim almost a length before a 2 minute break. By almost a length, I mean they would stop dead about 1/5 from the side and either walk in or pull in on the rope. This REALLY ruins the pace of the lane. If someone stops dead they're going to get swam into.

Then, during the 2 minute break, the three of them congregated, blocking the whole of the side stopping people completing lengths and turning effectively. They didn't wait until the stronger swimmers had passed before restarting the next length, on multiple occasions one of the three would start just as someone came to turn. It was ridiculous.

I bit my tongue. Hard. The angry energy made me swim another 15 lengths trying to calm down. It didn't work as this trio were seemingly unaware of others. Myself and other swimmers were ducking in and out of lanes to safely overtake and unfortunately, I did swim into a stopped body more than once when on my back as I was nowhere never the side.

AIBU to be furious? I know it's not my private lane and a public pool but these people just seemed to lack basic etiquette and social awareness.

WWYD if you were in that situation?

OP posts:
VanGogogh · 23/01/2014 20:35

Gin available. Cocktails and G&Ts will be served from teapots. Grin

OP posts:
Quoteunquote · 23/01/2014 20:50

this is a pool I would swim in

ThatBloodyWoman · 24/01/2014 19:22

Quote I think I could cope with that too!

LessMissAbs · 24/01/2014 19:29

Kaizan One of my sad games is to watch blokes legs underwater as they pass the other way and predict how many lengths they will swim before slowing a lot (kicking like mad, hanging legs = about 6) I swim a lot of lengths so I have to have some diversions

You forgot to mention the invariably male swimmers who push off in front of you just as you are about to turn at the end and who then swim slowly, holding you up, for just one length. Because being male makes them automatically faster, not holding up other swimmers!

And on 3 occasions, I have been in lanes with male swimmers who swim in such a way that they seem to touch you as they pass you. When challenged about this they are immediately aggressive and shouty. Yeah, because you can't swim in a public swimming pool without groping other swimmers...

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