I'm staying at my Dad's flat at the moment, which is on the first floor of a two storey block. Dad's upstairs neighbour just knocked on the door, asking if we'd out an anonymous note through her door saying 'please stop the banging, day and night, it's too much'. Well, we didn't - we do hear her children running up and down, but it's not a problem (Dad's a bit deaf anyway) - that's what kids do. I'm feeling outraged on her behalf that someone has done this, and can't for the life of me work out who it might be - no one else shares a ceiling/floor with her, just one (small) bedroom wall, and on the other side, a living room wall, and I can't imagine there's banging going on that we wouldn't be able to hear.
We've got a director's meeting (I'm Dad's proxy) coming up next week with the managing agent, and I'm wondering if it would be worth sending a letter to all occupants (most are tenants, only a few owners) suggesting that they contact the agents with any problems, as opposed to nasty little notes through doors! It's really left an unpleasant taste in my mouth, and am wondering what's the best way of dealing with it - any ideas? Strictly speaking, it's not my business, of course, but if she'd been too upset to ask if we'd sent the note, she might still be thinking we did, if you see what I mean.