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Mummytotwox · 14/01/2014 18:29

Omg I'm so angry right now.

Background: I have pnd. I have spent months sleeping all day and doing very little house work. But I cook every night, do washing ect ect apart from washing up which dh did.

Now iv lost weight and feeling a lot healther ect I have sooo much energy. This past week I have repainted bathroom, made sooo many healthy filling meals from scratch, cleaned every single room. My house is spotless. Today we had a new living room carpet fitted. I have moved all furniture back into the room, washed the windows, washed the walls, and cleaned every single thing that goes in here. I feel so proud, iv even moved the living room around.

So dh has just came home, i was so excited to show him how much iv done. Baring in mind I didn't do much before.

First thing he said "don't like the tv there". He didn't even mention the carpet.

Iv ran upstairs so upset, am I wrong being upset? I'm so fed up, he doesn't say anything about all the stuff I do, just what I don't. I'm fed of every meal not even a thank you.

When I say how unappreciated I feel he says "your doing your job. And no fucker else moans like you do"

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Mummytotwox · 14/01/2014 18:31

Plus he's now just made himself soup when his teas on the side.

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DeckSwabber · 14/01/2014 18:41

Odd reaction. Could be that he has been under a lot of pressure with you being unwell and is not sure how to react to the new energetic you?

Well done on your day!

Mummytotwox · 14/01/2014 18:46

Thanks, not sure what it is. But I'm so hurt, just wish he would say it looks nice or something

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wobblyweebles · 14/01/2014 18:55

I wouldn't run upset - just let loose straight at him. Let him know what you just told us.

And well done on all you've achieved! I don't get that much done on a good day.

deadduck · 14/01/2014 19:11

agree with wobbly. Tell him how you feel

Mummytotwox · 14/01/2014 19:14

Iv told him, he doesn't care. He says he is never doing anything around the house again "because he did everything". He's never done fuck all!!! I feel so angry right now. I just want to be appreciated.

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WaffilyVersatile · 14/01/2014 19:18

would you be better apart? I am not saying LTB, I am saying you need to have a serious think about who you are and whether he is supportive of you now that you are getting well. I understand how difficult it can be to be in a relationship but it sounds as though there might be a touch of resentment coming from him.

Toecheese · 14/01/2014 19:46

Stop cooking for him? Why bother if he doesn't appreciate it

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