AIBU to hate when people add ',no?' to the end of sentences!

[HappyGirlNow]

I may well be and I'm finding it hard to articulate why I hate it but loads of posters do this and I find it exceptionally annoying! It's just not how English sentences should be structured!

Examples: 'But it's cold there this time of year, no?'
'You should have said something at the time, no?'

AIBU???

I have never heard a native speaker say that. It sounds really pretentious! Can understand a non - native speaker saying it.

Do you find some people get really out there and add foreign words, non?

What about "non?" That's even more annoying, non?

It's surely not as bad as rising inflection?

Whoops ridiculous X post with Gin

Can you really end a German sentence with "oder"?

I don't mind it; because I see it as more than just the word 'no' I suppose. When I see it I always imagine the writer tilting their head sideways and looking pointedly at whoever they are addressing.

"... , oder?" is definitely normal German although might be regional. I know southern.

"... , no?" I hear mostly in Scotland so I am prepared to defend it on the grounds of regional variation too.

"Basically..." means "This is more complicated than necessary and I may be remembering wrong and/or filling in the gaps with fiction".

"Obviously..." means "I am definitely not sure about this but don't have the confidence to say so."

"Apparently..." means "this is a total work of fiction, but plausible, which is near enough."

I find 'right?' at the end of the sentence, said with a grating inflection rage-inducing

"I know, right?"

"It tastes good, right?"

Fuck off, you are from North East England, not America.

Sometimes there is a slightly menacing 'yeah?' at the end of a sentence, indicating that there may be trouble if you don't concur

Horatia I am Scottish and know people from all over Scotland and I've never heard anyone say ',no?' in real life.

I'm getting a lot of "I know, right?" from my 11 year old. Trying not to censure it - I think he feels it's subtle and I feel a bit mean stomping on it.

In fairness he my 11 year old does identify as American.

Crowler - I've got a 10 year old who does the "I know, right??" thing. Too many kids American shows like iCarly

oh yes, "non". probably used by someone who also says they are going to Pareee" for the weekend in a French accent.

We can forgive the kids for the Americanisms. The people getting my goat are mid-thirties ladies!

If you were French, this would be perfectly normal, ne c'est pas?

I've heard the '..., oder?' in German. I don't speak the language but used to understand some many years ago.

YANBU

(I am Scottish too.)

yes, switched off at the mains clearly - what's your point maid?

great minds HellonHeels, non?