To ask you all to give my uterus a shove?

[CunningAtBothEnds]

Ds1 is 4 ds2 is just 1... After DS2 Gp finally agreed that I have PCOS and put me on metformin.... Dropped 3st and counting, have regular periods and clear signs of ovulation... Nothing short of miraculous as struggled 2+ years for each DS.. Logically I know another DC now would be bad... But it's like my body is saying heyyyy I work use me!

Could also be that I've finally sought treatment for my depression, starting new job soon etc. Life is feeling ok... Whyyyy? Why? How do I shut this voice up?

Argh. IABU and trivial. Hrmpf. Kick me.

kick

Do you want another child? Can you afford one?

Consider yourself kicked. I would say if things are going well for you now, do you really want to rock the boat?!

Why would another DCs now be bad?

thanks for replying I preparing for being ignored, I do want another DC, DH is not convinced. we could afford another but the longer we leave it the easier it will be financially. at the moment both ds' have a bedroom each but that isnt the end of the world if they were to share. at the moment our house is unfinished, and I start a new job at the end of the month, we will have to wait at least a year, as childcare costs for two would cripple us, and I want to do an access course this year. I just want tiny baby snuggles and pregnancy kicks!

Age-wise can you wait for a year? I have pcos and was BFP within two weeks of starting metformin after years of trying so it could be quicker than you think if/when you go for it!

oh queen thats reassuring, im getting loads of EWCM so am pretty sure we wouldnt struggle, am 27 this year so not too worried about age, although I want to train as a nurse, doing access course this year, so another baby will delay training regardless. I think part of my issue is that DH isnt sure.. id like to know one way or the other, and he knows that he just says dont keep on...