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To not shop and cook for my exDP

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louby44 · 09/01/2014 20:43

Spilt a month ago, house up for sale. Agreed to pay for the mortgage,bills Tec and put set amount into joint account to cover everything.

I shopped and cooked for us (me and my DS) and him this week but I just don't want to do that anymore. Don't want to walk round Tesco thinking about the bloody Muller yougurts he likes.

So I told him, not doing it anymore! He told me I was fuckin selfish and childish and is now telling me I will have to pay the mortgage on my own!

Am I being unreasonable? He does NOTHING for me.

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louby44 · 12/01/2014 09:42

Already spoke to the bank and they say it will seriously affect credit score for both of us of course if he defaults - loans, mortgages, any sort of credit we could struggle in the future!

The mortgage bloke asked me why he wasn't going to pay the mortgage and I just said "because he's an idiot" and the bloke laughed, he was amazed. It is a very childish way to behave. He has a legal responsibility to pay all bills - as do I of course. but sums him up completley

Lol about the whistling, never thought about it like that! Ahh he's still thinking about me, I'm touched and very flattered - bless him!

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