OK, so I meet an ex BF for lunch. We're still friends, were never going to be great lovers but have a strong friendship.
I call for him at his place and after a brief chat etc, we start cuddling/kissing. All good so far.
I ask him if he wants to go upstairs ( we are both free agents). He agrees and we tear off to the bedroom.
The snogging/fondling progresses to undressing etc, but oh, there is a knock at the door. I tell him to ignore it but no; he promptly gets dressed and goes downstairs.
Minutes later I hear the tinkling of tea cups.
20 minutes later I call my friend on my mobile. she tells me to get my arse downstairs and gather my things and leave. I wait perhaps anther 20 minutes, by which time I'm fuming. I get dressed ,sort my hair, and make up and proceed to the living room where he is chewing the fat with a friend.
The friend is aghast, " Stuart ,you never told me you had company". I replied, " Well it's clear he prefers a cuppa than a bit of afternoon delight, now may you move your car so I can get out".
Guest jumps in his car and lets me out, guest can't leave quickly enough.
Text on my phone about how I humiliated him ( ex) caused a big show down, we are only friends after all? Is this how you treat only friends?
Part of me thinks this is laughable, the other part of me thinks this is plain weird. Anyone got anything to say on this matter?