I'll try and keep as short as possible. 
A show that I am desperate to see was advertised a couple of months ago. I was talking about it with friends and I had the intention to go with DH as it also requires a child free night away, so some much needed free time.
My friends showed great interest, whereas DH would have been going just because its something I wanted to do. I said I would try and get the tickets for us all and I managed it. No problems so far.
The issue now is one of the group is pregnant. She is due 5 days before the show and has to have an ELCS. Mine was only 2 days before my official due date so it is going to be very close. This friend does not live in the same place as the rest of us. It is already a 2-2 and a half hour trip for the rest of us (although it took me and DH 5 hours before!!) and this friend lives another 45 minutes (ish) further again. Obviously with a section she will not be able to drive herself (and I am thinking its too much to go to after major surgery anyway but she is adamant she is going).
My original plan was to go up as early as possible, do some shopping, chill out, have some tea then go to the show, nice child free night away, chilled breakfast and bit more shopping before going home, all making the most of a child free time.
The person who has offered to drive has said that we are going to have to go to pick up our friend, which means a 3 hourish drive up (all being well on the roads), nearly an hour trip back again, no time for anything other than a quick tea and on to the show and in the morning we would have to go nearly as hour in the wrong direction before coming home, again leaving no time for anything else. I suggested the driver drops me and the other person off to where we are going but she doesn't want to do that and I can see that would be a hassle. It would basically be all driving, quick tea, show, sleep, driving. Its not ideally the nice chilled out night away that I really really --need- want.
WIBU to suggest that me and the other person go straight to the place we are staying whilst the driver goes to pick up our friend? The driver is the best friend of the friend who lives away and has been to her house before so knows where she is going.
I know it is unfortunate timings but I am a little disappointed at 'losing' (can't think of a better word) the nice chilled out time I was looking for.
I genuinely don't know, I am not looking for a flaming, I am not an inconsiderate person but I know that the other friend coming was looking forward to a night away as well. Originally it was suggested we all go and stay with the person who lives nearer and just drive to and from the show but she has young kids and me and the other friend want a child free night away so we thanked her for the offer but politely declined.