I have a problem....last night I saw a text on my husbands phone saying "when can we meet up again baby" there was a whole conversation but before I could read it he snatched the phone and deleted it. He says he met a girl in a pub and swapped numbers and hasn't seen her since but I don't believe him. Its the 2nd time he has strayed...I dont know if he has slept with anyone....at a guess id say he has. AiBU to want him to leave without much proof, we have been together 10 years with 4 kids who are devestated.