Or am I being psb?
Ds is nearly 5 months old (also have 2yr old dd). Family day at pils today, we were there yesterday for Christmas Day. Today dh's cousin and his wife and kids are coming over, should be a nice day with food, drink etc.
Ds has a really bad phlegmmy (sp?) cold and cough. Really snotty and sicking up milk quite a lot. Only wants to cat nap on me, not go in cot. Part of me feels like it's unfair to drag him out and also, selfishly, I find it a lot harder work having to be at someone else's house and look after him and be sociable instead of staying in. Other part of me thinks it's not right to bow out of a family do.
So wibu to stay at home and just give him cuddles and get some rest myself? Is it a bit psb?
Should we just stick to the plan and go out or is it u to drag him out when he feels bad? I know I wouldn't want to go if I was as poorly as him but as he's just a baby all he's expected to do is lie there anyway? Or is it unfair to take him?
Or is it u to cancel seeing family because of this? Dh could still go with dd.
I think I'm going to feel a bit guilty if I don't go as I don't want to let them down but a bit guilty if I do go because of ds being poorly he maybe should get to rest in his own home? Wwyd?