Basically, my parents live an hour away. Since leaving home 20 years ago I have religiously gone home for Christmas. This year I put my foot down and said I was staying at home. I have 3 children and think its unfair to drag them between my house and both sets of parents on Christmas day.The in laws pefectly happy with this but my family refused to come and break the tradition of having family Christmas with extended family. Bit pee'd off really that they couldn't make effort to see grandkids on Christmas day, but that's there loss. Anyway, they agreed to come to us today. I'm 39 wks pregnant and also didn't fancy being away from my hospital. My brother (who can't ever do any wrong) is a chef and dm had told me that he was going to cook for us. As the weeks have gone on he has offered to do less and less so I have been out and bought easy buffet food. I phoned them this morning and basically my dm has moaned that I'm not catering for my fussy fathers dietary needs. They have also insisted that I do an early tea as my df wants to be home by 6. (They live an hour away) they've not set off yet and realistically are not going to be here before 1pm. My db still isn't out of bed, so the chances of him preparing any food before they set off is unlikely. I'm so pissed off that they have left all the organisation to me and are dictating what we eat, when we eat and are likely to simply eat and then leave!! Aibu???