Before they post their contribution?
Yes, I know I have probably repeated/missed things BUT generally it's a more general "Do you think my DH is unreasonable to pick his toenails"
If it's a very serious or worrisome problem I do try to read everything before I post.
Writing it all down has been cathartic and may stop me being horrible on a thread so I'll leave it at that.
Merry Christmas one and all! X