To insist that a cookery book should be a joint present for DD1 and her DF?

[MammaTJ]

DP does his fair share of cooking, he is certainly doing all the wrapping due to me being rubbish at it. He just put the recipe book I bought in DD1s pile, when it was entirely meant as a joint present for DD1 and her fiance. We are well aware that DF treats DD very well and does more than his share around the home, so I have no idea why such an assumption would be made.

He has not argued with me when I told him he was wrong, btw, just moved the book between their two piles (from santa).

umm....are you drunk?

I see what you are saying, but if they live together then it will be a joint present anyway, so I am not sure that there was a great need to make the point.

But then, I am tired, cranky and couldn't give a fuck what presents end up in what pile in our house tonight. :o

umm....are you drunk?

I have no idea what would make the correct assumption that I am drunk.

DP was going to wrap it up to DD. So DD sould have had one more present that her DF. It was so meant for both of them, as I assume it will be used by both of them!

wannabe, I feel your pain, you don't care who has what as long as everyone has something they cannot complain about!

I agree, I do not want my DD to have something to complain about in years to come!

YANBU . The present is for both of them so it must be labelled as such surely .