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To think DH could just pick up a chicken drum stick and eat it.

59 replies

NoComet · 14/12/2013 22:15

Honestly, is my DH the only one who messes about with a knife and fork and makes a toddler grade fuss about any meat with bones.

Why can't he just pick them up and eat them!

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Alibabaandthe40nappies · 14/12/2013 23:20

Just when I think there is no more weirdness to be revealed, MN comes up trumps again.

BohemianGirl that isn't very, er, bohemian to refuse to eat even a sandwich with your fingers! How do you eat a sandwich then? With a knife and fork?

InTheRedCorner · 14/12/2013 23:24

How do you eat a sandwich without using your fingers then?

I'm imagining hoovering it up with your mouth straight from the plate.

That is weird.

Eastpoint · 15/12/2013 05:56

Doesn't it depend what sort of meal it is? Roast chicken with gravy etc needs a knife & fork. BBQ chicken leg is a pick up and munch meal.

karatekimmi · 15/12/2013 06:26

Are you married to my husband? He's a real fuss pot too!! No ribs when order Chinese!!

Food ate with fingers tastes twice as yummy!!

LtEveDallas · 15/12/2013 06:27

I can strip a chicken carcass, but can't eat drumsticks or wings. The very thought makes me . Something about sinews and bones near my teeth.

I don't eat ribs either, unless DH has them and strips the meat off for me.

Nice to know I'm not the only one Smile

MincedMuffPies · 15/12/2013 06:32

I love meat with bones, and lamb chops with that marrow bit Mmm.

NoobytheWaspSlayer · 15/12/2013 08:21

How do you eat a sandwich without using your fingers?!!!

MistressDeeCee · 15/12/2013 08:26

A knife & fork? To eat a chicken drumstick? Ive not done that, or even heard of it really. I dont cook greasy chicken, anyway...! but in any event if you dont want meat on your fingers its easy enough to just use a napkin or piece of kitchen roll wrapped around the bottom of it. Wouldnt it be really messy eating a drumstick with a knife & fork? Or wasteful, ie lots of meat left on the bone?

BohemianGirl · 15/12/2013 08:27

You hold it in a napkin?

That's just me isn't it?

BohemianGirl · 15/12/2013 08:28

Actually, they laugh at me at work because I won't eat cake unless it's on a plate and I'm using a fork .

BohemianGirl · 15/12/2013 08:31

BBQs and buffets are my idea of culinary hell; all those people touching food and shoving it in their gobs.

silently screaming

honeybeeridiculous · 15/12/2013 08:32

My DH uses a knife and fork to eat pizza!
I blame his mother! He also wipes sugar off
donuts and holds them with a tissue Hmm

JodieGarberJacob · 15/12/2013 08:34

What about crisps and sweets?

Snowbility · 15/12/2013 08:36

Dh is like this too, he refuses to eat ribs, eats chicken legs with knife and fork, fajitas are fun too - he can't stand mess...we all laugh at him while scoffing our meat

Snowbility · 15/12/2013 08:36

Yes dh eats pizza with a knife and fork, burgers too, it's embarrassing!

OneHandFlapping · 15/12/2013 08:36

I'm guessing none of you bone/sinew/skin haters would eat a sausage then? Or a chicken nugget?

Because that's pretty much what they're made of.

Snowbility · 15/12/2013 08:40

Dh won't eat sugary donuts. He just about coped with Eritrean food, because the bread kept his fingers dry. Could blame his mother....she's lovely but she is the fussiest eat I have ever encountered! I don't want Dh's food issues to rub off on the kids...eating food with your hands is very natural and normal....it's not always the way to do it

Sirzy · 15/12/2013 08:40

I eat them, but I wouldn't eat them with my fingers either (unless it was a hot dog of course)

I just don't like getting my hands messy when eating, and when there is perfectly good cutlery available don't see the point!

curlew · 15/12/2013 08:43

Is this where I tell anyone that doesn't know that the "correct" way to eat asparagus is with the fingers?

LtEveDallas · 15/12/2013 08:43

One hand, I have no problems with sausages (or faggots or haggis, or liver). It's the feel of bone/sinew etc against my teeth that makes me gag, not the content Smile

SirChenjin · 15/12/2013 08:54

I wouldn't eat a chicken nugget, no. Sausages are OK though, tend to buy the higher meat content. It's more the feel of the bone and sinew against my teeth, as LtEveDallas says - but then cotton wool, peach skin, pear skin and various other things against my teeth also makes me gag Confused

FraidyCat · 15/12/2013 09:06

I was taught that it was OK to hold chicken drumsticks/wings with hands, but I don't like getting my fingers sticky, so these days always use knife and fork. It's perfectly easy, doesn't take any longer, and believe me I don't leave any meat behind.

In fact I use knife and fork even when eating Asian cooking that involves one or two inch cubes of chopped up chicken covered in sauce/curry, where you can't even tell if it's a piece of breast or contains bone/cartilage until your knife/tooth hits same. Again, have no difficulty cutting the meat off with a knife.

Delurkedforthis · 15/12/2013 09:10

but then cotton wool, peach skin, pear skin and various other things against my teeth also makes me gag

Aha...so it's NOT just chicken then. Sirchenjin . I knew it!!! Look could you do me a hypnosis tape, I could really do with some of what you've got Xmas Grin

But why are you eating cotton wool?

SirChenjin · 15/12/2013 09:10

Oh bloody heel - cartilage [shudder] [vomit] [shudder] [retch]

SirChenjin · 15/12/2013 09:12

hell, not hell obv.

Cotton wool - when the dentist puts these horrid cotton wool rolls in your mouth? I'm trying to think of other occasions when it's been in my mouth - I know it has, but I think I've blanked it.