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To not send Christmas cards this year?

9 replies

LayMeDown · 12/12/2013 20:15

I just don't want to. I hate doing it. DH sits beside me rolling his eyes giving out about what a waste of money and time it is. I always swore I would never start but I somehow got sucked into it by all the other people who kept sending me cards.
This year we moved house so do I have to get change of address cards done, or do I have to write it in the card?
I really can't face it. Anyway what is the point of sending cards to in laws, parents, siblings. I am going to see them all over Christmas anyhow?

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HectorVector · 12/12/2013 20:17

I've just sent all mine and if I'd've known how much they'd cost to send before I wrote them I wouldn't have bothered £28 to send 2nd class! YANBU!

LayMeDown · 12/12/2013 20:24

Yes it is expensive. But it will be noted by my mum. As all the cousins send theirs and no one got one from me. Bla bla

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BreakingGood · 12/12/2013 20:31

I now just send cards to people who I won't see over Christmas and I think would be a bit offended if I didn't send a card. Previous to that I used to write cards in response to those I received each day (kept a pack in the porch with a pen and a book of stamps) - I found that much less of a chore than sitting down and writing a whole pile. Made the decision not to worry about those I received after the last post.
It has nothing to do with the cost, I just find the whole thing a complete thing tedious and dull.
I can't stand xmas cards in the house now - I put them straight into the recycling after I have read them!

CynicalandSmug · 12/12/2013 20:44

Yanbu, I stopped bothering years ago. I am not a fan of Christmas anyway so always felt it a bit hypocritical. I generally send an email out to the people I don't regularly see wishing them a good time. Really, in this day and age are people bothered anymore? Who has the money to waste?Christmas = retailmas.

RemusLupinsBiggestGroupie · 12/12/2013 20:44

I've not sent any for years. I don't think anybody has actually noticed yet.

giantpurplepeopleeater · 12/12/2013 20:48

I just asked if it would be unreasonable not to do Christmas cards on behalf of my 3 yr old to give out to his friends at nursery (FFS! He's 3, he can't even write!) but I like your idea much better.

Sod the lot of it. Christmas cards are out this year. I'm done with them. Long may it live on!!

God I'm a scrooge Blush

whereisshe · 12/12/2013 20:49

I don't bother with Christmas cards any more (particularly not now I have to send most of them overseas). And we rarely tell anyone our new postal address when we move so I haven't received any for years either...

Fairylea · 12/12/2013 20:54

I don't do any at all. If I want to wish someone a happy Christmas I will either ring them and do so or tell them if I bump into them. Close family I will see on Christmas day anyway.

I buy a small pack of cards for dd (aged 10) because it's the done thing at school but I haven't done any for years.

loveandsmiles · 12/12/2013 20:55

breakinggood ~ I thought I was the only person that read cards then put in the bin Xmas Grin ~ feel so much better to know others do it to!!

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