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to feed DC before pets?

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pregnantpause · 11/12/2013 11:55

This week has been a crap one. I have emptied my cupboards, and have only been buying food for a week in advance. On Sunday I went to do just that to find my card had been canceled and I have no access to any money. I've been a victim of fraud, the bank after finding this (and failing to tell me) froze everything. With insurance and what not I'm left with ten quid until FridaySad
Then on Monday the chickens ran out of chicken food. At eight quid a bag, I thought sod it they can live on scraps and bought them a bag of oats for porridge twice a day (78p from my ten pound) with the rest I got pasta, rice, bread ,milk and frozen veg (and resolved never to empty my usually overfull cupboards and freezer in the name of less waste ever againAngry )
My friend visited today, bringing a lovely cake to cheer me, and went on to scold me for not using the money on chicken food and borrowing food from friends and family for me and DC. Her argument is the chickens cannot fend for themselves I am entirely responsible for them and if she wasn't my friend she might report me for crueltySad aibu? I suppose I could have asked about for spare bags of pasta and rice, or had dinner at my mums for the week, but, really? They're big fat chickens who get lots of green stuff from the garden and are getting three litres of porridge a day! Surely DC come first, it's only a few days.

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Jinglebellsforthebetter · 11/12/2013 21:02

Why haven't my wine emoticons shown up Confused

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Jinglebellsforthebetter · 11/12/2013 21:03

Ah!.........

(Slinks off thread Blush)

pregnantpause · 11/12/2013 21:29

Jingle- no need to slink, that appears to be almost the right amount of wine I need right nowWink

Tbf friend didn't know I only had a tenner until she arrived and talked, she knew I had been screwed by some twit and was down. She didn't put the boot in till she arrived and was given full disclosure. Still, the cake was good, and she's not my best friend, so lesson learnt- next time I'll invite her on slaughter dayGrin the rspca will be up in arms to hear her tell it.

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bochead · 11/12/2013 21:57

I was always told growing up that's it is only when you are down that you discover who your real friends are!

That lady would be one less stamp for my Xmas list, and I'd be busy whenever she wanted to pop round/meet up from here to eternity.

It's not OK for a grown adult to be that ignorant and nasty.

AdoraBell · 11/12/2013 22:30

Look I shall Google Mike a bit later, not sure if I Really want to though...

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