To be annoyed with dh?

[Mummytotwox]

So iv been stuck at home all day with d+v bug. Feel rough as hell. Dh and dc have traveled 90miles to go to inlaws. They left at 9.30 this morning.
Iv not heard from him all day. Iv texted,iv rang. Nothing apart from a text to say they got there. He's not asked how I am or anything.

Maybe he didn't want to disturb you if you were ill? Thought you might have been asleep perhaps? I'd just be happy to have the house to myself and no one else to look after whilst being unwell. YABU

Perhaps he is letting you rest.

I think you are being a little unreasonable tbh. Understandable if you feel like crap, but still unreasonable.

We don't need to be in constant contact with each other just because we have access to mobile phones and text messaging, and there is nothing your DH can do for you while he's taking the dc to visit his parents anyway.

To be honest, I don't think that would bother me. I'd just be glad to have house and bathroom all to myself.

Enjoy the peace and get well soon!

I would expect him to let you know when he'd left though, so you know when he'll be back.

Blimey. I'm on the sofa feeling rough as old boots trying to shake off a virus I've had for a couple of weeks. . DH took my ds aged 5 and dd aged 2, to soft play for two hours earlier today but has got loads of work to do. So that was it. Hence I have just had to get on with it for the rest if the day.

What I wouldn't give for a day in bed, to rest undisturbed. YABU and rather ungrateful. Hope you feel much better soon.

Iv had house work todo. It's more the fact iv texted him and he hasn't texted back. Lol

Yes YABU, what's the problem, he hasn't text you today, how old are you 16? Get a grip and appreciate the time to get well on your own, Christ my DH might stretch to the park 2 mins walk away, think yourself lucky!

Fucking hell, it's not unreasonable to expect your husband to call and check if you're ok