Why all the doom?
Not everybody wants to retire at 60. If I enjoy my job, I may want to continue working until I'm 70. Particularly if I expect to live well into my eighties. Nor do I expect the state to fund me through 25 years of retirement. There are better uses for the money (hospitals, schools, roads, looking after disabled people, you know the sort of thing)
Few people will be too decrepit to work through their sixties. Not everybody does hard, physically demanding work; most don't. Quoting examples of older relatives who worked in heavy industry for 50 years isn't relevant, sad as their experiences are; times (and H&S rules) are very different now, and anybody suffering from a genuinely debilitating physical condition would be medically retired in any case.
I'm aghast that somebody is considering remortgaging her house to fund children through university, at the expense of her own pension contributions. Why? Let your children make their own decisions and accept the consequences. They won't be thanking you when you are asking them for financial help later in your life, when you can't afford your (re)mortgage.
It's never too late to save into a pension. We all know that there was dreadful mis-selling of pensions in the 1980s and 1990s. Things are much stricter now, and charges are being capped. Auto-enrolment into workplace pensions is being introduced; everyone will have an opportunity to save through one of those. "Those sharks will steal my money" sounds like a convenient excuse for burying your head in the sand.
I was amused by a thread on style and beauty about Mulberry handbags, where posters said that they were happy to spend £800 on a handbag because they didn't smoke etc., so it was affordable. I wonder whether any of those posters are complaining about not being able to afford to contribute to a pension and having to work until they are 70? Just wondering.
Having a decent pension provision helps me sleep at night. It's never too late to start!