Ds has been going 2 days per week since 8 months old, absolutely loved it until he changed rooms in feb. Since then he has had periods of being ok about going, but mostly getting upset when I say its a nursery day, pleading with me not to take him and being hysterical at drop off. Nursery say he is generally ok after a while but sometimes doesn't fully settle all day. He always seems happy at pick up but says he hasn't had a nice time.
Had a few meetings with nursery as been concerned about staff turnover, basically that they tended to just leave him to it as he is quiet, not cleaning him properly after poo's etc. They held their hands up and things have improved in those respects.
From what they say I don't feel they really know him at all, e.g. they recently commented that he is getting better with his speech, its like he doesn't speak there much, whereas elsewhere everyone comments on how forward his speech is.
Sorry this is so long, just trying to give the full picture. .I don't know if I am being pfb, if its just that he is quiet and would rather be at home, which is unfortunately not an option, if there really is something wrong there or if I move him, he would just be equally unhappy and had the upset of changing nursery on top of it.
Just don't know what to do, I did post about this in august, had a meeting with them and was pleased with the changes but here we are again.
Scared to change and he still be unhappy. Have found a small nursery which may suit him better. I think my gut is to move him, just wish I had a crystal ball.