Aibu to think there must be something wrong with this person?

[ThereWasOnceAGirl]

Wrong as in she has fallen out to the point of never speaking again to ...

• Her mother
• Her brother
• Her sister in law (thus never seeing her nieces)
• Two of her closest friends.

So although there are two sides to every story. This seems rather excessive to me, and perhaps its an issue with her and not every other person?

I don't think you've understood what's happened on this thread OP. You posted about your 'friend'. Pretty much everyone told you that you were being unreasonable to judge as there is usually a good reason why people limit contact with their families. Some people also said you shouldn't worry about other people's relationships.

Then you said you were posting about yourself, and got really aggressive about how people were 'insulting' you. But no one has said that there was something person who cut contact with a range of people. You've said you have mental health issues, and that might be affecting how you're perceiving this thread. People here will only be against you if you antagonise them, not because you've got a crappy family and some shitty ex friends.

The posters on here couldn't have won OP, could they?

If we said that there was something wrong with your friend we would be judging you.

But we told you not to be judgemental of your friend (ie you) and you went off on one.

What did you want from this thread? Explain the situation to us and we can help, but you set yourself up to fall from the start.

I have cut my brother out of my life but that was a build up over many years, however my friend starting cutting people out of her like very quickly over a short period of time with knee jerking reactions which was down to her depression. Unless you know the reasons it's hard to judge, if like my friend this has happened quickly and for varying reasons then maybe look at yourself if however you have surrounded yourself with toxic people and need to change then you do not need to justify it.

Why don't you start a new thread OP and write it from your own perspective. That way we can give the proper support. This thread was just a bit confusing for us all. Hope you're ok.

I think you've set yourself up to fall out with a bunch of anonymous strangers on the internet...

What's that all about then?

You sound like my sister in law.

Almost exactly like my sister in law.

I have to say that our lives are a helluva lot better since she fucked off out of them.