Ok a little backstory my grandma on my dads side lives opposite my mum and dad. She is disabled but can do a lot of things herself so isnt able to have carers come in - there isnt any funding available.
Mum asked me a few months ago if i would stay at theirs for 3 weeks so they could go on a much needed long haul holiday, if i couldnt stay they couldnt go. I said yes on the provision my sister helps. My sister lives abroad and the help i was talking about was a phone call twice a week on nights i couldnt get there to make sure she had eaten and there wasnt any issues. My mums house is a hour and a half from my work so there was a lot of extra travel for me.
i spoke to sister on Friday night and she has phoned my grandma once despite me telling her the day that i wouldnt be home till late. My mum and dad come back on Wed. I don't know if im being massively unreasonable but i'm annoyed as i'm shattered getting up at 6am for work every day and not getting home till 8 and she has been no help.
I just feel very grumpy and want to know if i am being unreasonable?
sorry about typos im on my mobile also!