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AIBU?

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To think one person can ruin your whole life :(

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Anotherdayinparadise1 · 25/11/2013 12:55

Ok so the title is probably a bit dramatic ..but I don't know what to do ... I'm new here so just a quick run down ...

Ok so me and my dp got together over two years ago we both have children 3 in total ..we made it work and all lived for over a year as a happy blended family .. Now here's where the trouble starts as dss was at his mums she reported us for abuse ..which is complete bull ..were going through a core assessment .but she decided he needs to live there which would be fine apart from the fact she hasn't bothered for two years only once every other weekend she has blocked visits and we have only been able to see the child twice in over a month and when he came he's like a different child he's clearly distressed and begging to come home .. We can't do anything until residence is settled at court in the mean time I'm so stressed about dss emotional state I just don't know what to do my children are heartbroken so is dp and myself

Sorry for the big rant

:(

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WorraLiberty · 25/11/2013 13:13

In what way has she accused you and your DP of abusing him?

How is her son living full time with her? Did she refuse to return him after a visit?

CocacolaMum · 25/11/2013 13:21

erm surely if he was living with you then it should be her having to wait for residency to be decided?

Anotherdayinparadise1 · 25/11/2013 13:29

She accused us of punching him and kicking him ect ..she phoned out the emergency team on a Sunday night they pretty much broke down our door and forced us to sign saying we would not try to remove him whilst they investigate. The child was insisting there had been no abuse (he's 8)so she had him taken for a full medical which revealed nothing !!! No one wanted to listen when we were telling them he is now in real harms way ..but now six weeks on and there changing there tune an going along with it's not a social services matter it's about someone being bitter and twisted but in the mean time so much damage has been done I feel like I'm about to have a break down :(

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WorraLiberty · 25/11/2013 16:59

Do you have any idea why and where all this has come from?

Why did they have to break down your door, did you refuse to let them in?

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