to ask if you emigrated, what criteria did you base your decision on?

[hellokittymania]

I am having a very hard time deciding where I want to stay. It will either be Vietnam, US or UK. Each has its pros and cons, and it is a very hard decision.

Pippi, at the moment, I have decided to stay single. :) I was a very late bloomer due to over protective and dysfunctional family. Part of the reason I love Vietnam is because of the people who have treated me so well. I have stability here. I've come a long way in 7 years. :)

I really want children actually, but haven't even had a proper boyfriend yet. Lots to do and don't know where to start

I'd pick Vietnam out of those three.

Best of luck, OP! :)

Why not make a decision to stay 5 years or whatever length of time you thinkis suitable to give making a life there a real chance. Throw yourself into making what you can of it and decide what you are going to do next when the time period is up?