I do the two school runs starting from seven am and finishing at quarter past nine, the clothes washing, drying and sometimes but only if they REALLY need doing the ironing of everyone's clothes, floors, kitchen clean down, bathroom, toilet scrubbing, dusting, polishing, basic diy, all decorating, kids clubs, food shop, homework etc. You know, the usual shit.
Dp does the dishwasher. He's pissed off at me because of this. He works a 36 hour week but shifts so not everyday. He doesn't want to come home and do the pots. I never do it right apparently so it became his job.
He was at work yesterday so I did do the pots and admittedly a couple didn't wash right although that happens when he does it too you have to practically hand wash everything before putting them in. 
cue tonight another gripe about him having to do pots he hasn't used!
I wash the clothes that I don't wear and the toilet after he shits in it so I said as much. His response was 'well, when was the last time you worked'. It was April this year actually when my contract ended. I have been doing some voluntary but the funding for the project was shut down. I had another interview three weeks ago and didn't get it and am not holding my breath about getting another job anytime soon as I'm pregnant (and showing) with our fourth baby. He earns a very good wage and I don't 'need' a job but I would like one.
It's really bloody annoyed me on one hand but on the other I can kind of see his point. AIBU?