We have two children, a 5yo dd and 4yo ds.
He's not very hands on, apart from he does bath them on a Sunday. He raley takes them bed, has never cooked there tea, doesn't dress them, or anything. Doesn't take them out, doesn't really play with them unless it's his terms. But he think he's brilliant at punishment, and telling them off.
It feels like he doesn't talk to them, just shouts. Same with me, we can never have a conversation because he hates me "talking over him". He's always raising his voice, and i end up yelling at him to stop.
He sulks like a teenager,just now he's on the computer with music on loud, so I will "fuck off upstairs".
He's so frigging moody, like kids will do something and I will laugh, and say show daddy, he won't react hardly at all.
He puts me down in front of the kids, like yday we was out shopping, dd asked me to go to the toilet, I said daddy will take you as I was busy, he turned around and told our daughter "I was lazy and couldn't get off my arse to take her". Even though he was sat down too.
I'm sick to death of him. He never puts the kids first, he used too. When they was younger he was a much better father then he is now :(