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AIBU to be concerned that my son has turned me into a big cry baby?

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DoJo · 16/11/2013 22:24

Before I had my son, I was pretty normal in terms of my control of my emotions. Every so often I would have a cry about something relatively serious, but I think I was generally at the 'doesn't cry much' end of the emotional spectrum. I do remember laughing at my mum when I was a teenager because she cried at something that happened in the Archers, and even managed to shed a tear when she caught the end of an episode of Neighbours despite never having watched it before.

Since having my son, however, I am a massive teary-eyed wuss! I didn't actually cry when he was born, but about three days later I wept at how perfect he was and seem to have barely stopped since! My mum bought him the 'How much do I love you?' book, and although my head finds it a bit odd and cringey (weird 'who loves who most' one-upmanship between nut brown hares? Confused), the first time I read it I was in floods by the middle. I found myself tearing up at a radio 4 drama a couple of weeks ago, and can be set off by the weirdest things - I came close to crying at a wedding a while ago which is TOTALLY not me (or at least the me I was until 18 months ago).

So, will this ever stop? Will I ever manage to get back to the sensible person who was in touch with their emotions, but also in control, or will I forever more threaten to be besieged by waterworks over things like the fact that I used to kiss my son through the bannisters in our old house but can't reach in our new one? (Yes - it is truly this which has inspired this thread, despite the fact that the only reason I can't reach is because there are boxes on front of them and I will be able to do it again in a couple of weeks when everything is sorted!).

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DoJo · 16/11/2013 23:34

Bugger - I hadn't thought about grandchildren! Can anyone recommend a portable dehumidifier I can just attach to my face?

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Ozziegirly · 17/11/2013 01:51

I am fine with Guess How Much I love you as I find them quite annoying, BUT I re-read the Anne of Green Gables series about a year after having DS1 and was in utter floods over things that in the past I had found sad or happy but this time they floored me (when Matthew dies, when he buys her a new dress for the first time ever, when Gilbert wonders if he can make her happy, when Diana has a baby, when she loses her first baby, when she has Jem).

Plus obviously all the normal things like the news...

Ozziegirly · 17/11/2013 01:53

Oh and my mum is still a cryer, and I'm 36!

BankWadger · 17/11/2013 17:57

Actually what is more annoying than now bawling my eyes at fabric softener ads is my inability to spin around, go on swings or even sit in a car for 5 minutes without feeling very very sick. I want to go on the swings!

killpeppa · 17/11/2013 18:09

Im the same. I never cried, now i weep at anything
+ A 12 year old busker was yesterdays tear fest +

DisgraceToTheYChromosome · 17/11/2013 18:58

I'm a chap and I wept buckets when DD was born. That seemed to flip a switch, and I now well up at every opportunity.

Which, when you look like a grumpier more murderous Phil Mitchell, is a bit disconcerting for the bystanders.

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