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macmat · 15/11/2013 09:23

a 9 year old child is allowed 16 or 18+ rated game on their mobile phone which they then play on a school bus on a the way to sports fixtures or at a sleepover, while my child sits alongside and watches while zombies have their brains shot to bits?

I understand that some parents have a more relaxed approach to what games they allow their kids to play, not that I agree with it, but if they are allowing their child to take that game and play it in front of other kids who may not be allowed to play those games, then surely that is wrong? Is it the responsibility of the parent who allows these games to be played to ensure that their child only plays it at home or in an environment where other kids aren't around?

A child with a pornographic film on their phone would be in all sorts of trouble if they had it at school or were showing other kids. So why is it not the same for 18+ games?

I would also love to know from the parents who do let their kids play these violent games why they allow their kids to play them i.e. what benefit they think their kids get from playing them? Or is the benefit purely to the parent who doesn't have to put up with the nagging?

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marmaladeandguitars · 15/11/2013 09:26

YANBU. Can you tell the school and ask that your child be seated elswhere?

PansOnFire · 15/11/2013 09:31

YANBU, the child obviously shouldn't be playing those games at all but if he is playing them at any event connected with the school then the school can take charge and confiscate the device (if the parent is not there) or request that he puts it away. They can enforce that he doesn't play those games because they are not legal at his age. I'm not going to start about the irresponsible parents who let their children play these games. You should be able to send your child on school activities without him coming into contact with disgusting games, tell the school.

Joysmum · 15/11/2013 09:31

I'd be approaching the school too.

Our daughter has an iPhone because it's so much easier for us as parents to be able to limit, monitor her, keep her safe and guide her. Unfortunately we're having issues with others who either don't draw the line where we do or else simply don't know what's going on.

It's not easy being a patent is it

macmat · 15/11/2013 09:51

i have raised it with the school and they were not happy that this was going on and will be doing something about it (not sure what yet). But to me it's not just at school, the kids take their phones everywhere and then play on the games. I can't imagine any child being able to resist looking at his mate's phone/ipad screen - and if they are looking at stuff they wouldn't ordinarily be allowed on, it causes problems.

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