Last night my husband was getting stuff out of the car and left the front door wide open, I asked him if he could close the door to in between going out to the car as the heating was on and house became really cold. He moaned that it was easier to leave it open and I was going on. He was in a funny mood anyway prior to this as I heard him say "fuck In hell" in the kitchen when he dropped something and I told him not to say that as our 4 year old heard.
We ended up having a row and he said "is this how your mom spoke to your dad?" I really lost it then as my dad died a couple of years ago so is very raw. I didn't swear at him or anything but told him I have had enough of him always in a mood and always saying little sarcastic remarks and basically the way he speaks to me(my 4 year old was asleep in bed at this point) At this point he walked out and drove off somewhere. I also have a 14 month old who was upstairs at the time playing with his toys. I was really upset at this point.
My husband came back about 20 minutes later and realising our baby was not in bed accused me of neglecting him! He also called me a bitch. I said dont call me a bitch and he said i'm only like this because of my dads death. I told him to stop throwing my dads death in my face because whenever we have an argument he says that everytime as he knows my weakness.
I haven't spoke to him today and feel so upset. I really don't know what to think as he was trying to be nice this morning, he said sorry but said I never apologise. Trouble is this is not the only time he has called me names, he also called me a liar.