please tell me if IABU because I'm so pissed off right now.

[walterwhitebadass]

so might not be thinking very reasonably.

Last year I worked away abroad for around half a year, when I got home my closest friends organised a welcome home dinner which was lovely of them. My best friend didn't even come.

We have another friend who works away for half the year and is home the rest of the year and she has been doing this for around 5 years now. She is due to come back very soon and my best friend is organising a welcome home party for her at her house.

My friend never has parties at her house (very clean person who just hates the idea of people not using a coaster - just very house proud)

I just feel quite down .... that she can do this for one friend and not me. Maybe I wouldn't feel so down if she'd come to the meal but then again she didn't even organise it.

Aibu and a bit of a spoilt brat?

[Loopytiles]

Yabu.

[ExcuseTypos]

If she hadnt had the family issues, would she have come to your party. If the answer is yes, then I think you're over thinking things.

Just be happy and offer to help with the party.

[womblesofwestminster]

OP, how old are you?