When I split with my ex a while back, we agreed to not let anyone get involved in the break up & to make it aware to people who did ask that it was a mutual decision. I did just that. When family/friends asked I said we drifted apart & it was a mutual decision. Since then, I have had nothing but drama from my family. My sister thought it was a good idea to email my ex & ask for more info on our split. My ex seems to think my friends influenced me to agree to split :S therefore my sister emailed me telling me how much she doesn't like my friends, that im different since being with them (known them for 10yrs) & that my family will do a better job of being there for me than what my friends will.
Surely if family will do a better job then my sister wouldn't have emailed my ex to find out more details about our split. Surely family would be happy with your choice if it made you happy? My family are now being distant with me. Not because I have moved on. But because of the email my sister sent my ex. I've explained to them what happened, I've told them i'm happier now than what I was 8 months ago & I've told them if they cant be happy for me then that's fine but at the very least put it behind you & be civil to me for the sake of keeping the peace If nothing else.
Why did my sister do this? It hasn't made me trust her or look at her as a person I would go to. Its made me really angry. I don't want to fall out with anyone especially since it really has nothing to do with them. I just needed to rant tbh. Get it off my chest. I've always been told that I need to start putting my happiness first. The first time I actually do it & im told im wrong for doing it.