I am very close to one of my colleagues, we have worked together for years and would socialise quite alot. Today in work she got into trouble (perhaps quite serious) for something that was done accidentally. She was quite upset about it and knowing her, she is sitting at home right now, probably crying over it. I myself havr been in trouble a number of times for mistakes and know how horrible it is.
I want to send her a text and see if she is ok, but to be honest I am worried she will bring up what happened, and discussing work things outside is prohibited. I know she wouldnt tell them but if it got out somehow then I would be in trouble too.
I feel so awful she is my friend and obviously I want to console her. Its so hard being friends with colleagues sometimes :(
Should I just send the text anyway?