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AIBU?

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To have enabled some tweens?

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TheSlatternintheHat · 26/10/2013 18:53

When I was a tween, I ADORED MAC makeup and always had my nose pressed to the counter, drooling over lipsticks I couldn't afford. The irony is, now I'm older, I never really wear lipstick.

MAC have an ongoing recycling scheme called "Back to MAC" whereby if you bring back 6 empty containers, you can get a free lipstick. Today, I was at a MAC counter armed with several empty containers and determined to find some lipstick I would be happy to wear. I finally settled on one shade, but had enough empty containers for 4 more lipsticks.

Whilst looking, I overheard a couple of tweens (they can't have been older than 12 years old), standing near the lipsticks and trying different shades, talking about which lipsticks they would love to get if only they could afford them. It took me right back to when I was their age. They turned around to leave and I went after them and asked if they'd like some free lipstick. I thrust them two carrier bags with 6 containers each and told them they could take it to the counter and pick a free lipstick each. They looked at me sceptically (probably wondering who the mad lady was!) and, without waiting to hear their reaction, I turned around and hurried off, a little bit embarrassed. As far as I saw, they walked out of the store giggling to themselves, and I figured they had no idea about the scheme and would probably bin the bags.

When I was at the counter waiting to get my free lipstick, one of the MAC assistants came up holding some empty containers and asked the assistant serving me if she'd given them to some girls by mistake. I saw the containers and realised they were the ones if given away, turned and saw the girls a few feet back. It transpired that the girls had said they were given the containers and wanted to return them, in case they were given in error or stolen! I told the assistant I'd given the containers to the girls and that they could use them if they wanted. When I'd finished at the till, I turned to leave and passed by the girls and told them they'd get better use of the lipsticks than I would, and they very sweetly thanked me.

It was only an hour later that I thought, oh shit, what if their parents don't allow them to wear makeup? I put it to a couple of my friends and they're split down the middle. One of them had strict parents and said they'd have been furious and probably punished her for speaking to and accepting stuff from a stranger. The other thought it wasn't a big deal and, if they're parents were that strict, the girls would probably say nothing and keep it to themselves (I don't know whether that's so good either - if that's the case, I'd be enabling the girls to be dishonest/lie to their parents!)

So, what do you all think? WIBU? I keep thinking no, I was just trying to be nice in a fit of nostalgia - but the road to hell is paved etc etc ...

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Snargaluff · 26/10/2013 19:26

Such a sweet thing to do!

ArthurCucumber · 26/10/2013 19:27

Hopefully, they would, Zillion, which would head off a bit of it :)

Helpyourself · 26/10/2013 19:31

It was a lovely thing to do.
If the girls are old enough to be out unsupervised I think they're old enough to explain to their parents exactly how they came by them.

pixiepotter · 26/10/2013 19:32

I wouldn't be too happy about a stranger giving make up tio my 12 yr old DD

5madthings · 26/10/2013 19:34

I think it's a lovely thing to do and if you had given them to my DDE, I would hope she wpudl thank you and I would tell her what a lucky girl she was :)

Merrylegs · 26/10/2013 19:38

I think you should have traded the containers in yourself and then offered the girls the free lipstick. If someone had shoved a bag of empty lipsticks at my 12 year old dd and a friend they wouldn't have really grasped what you were on about tbh.

DumSpiroSpero · 26/10/2013 19:45

I think it's a lovely idea, and a shame that people so rarely do stuff like this it makes a minority of people go Hmm .

HildaOgden · 26/10/2013 19:53

I'm wondering how much Mac you usually use if you had a total of 30 empty containers to bring back!

uncomfortablydumb · 26/10/2013 19:55

Lovely idea. But yes, what Hilda said Grin

VivaLeBeaver · 26/10/2013 19:59

What containers count? Can I take back stubs of eyeliners and lipsticks?

IneedAsockamnesty · 26/10/2013 20:16

You were in a public place with witnesseses about so not an issue on that score,

The offer gives a receipt stating its an offer so no problem on that score,

If a 12yo is interested in make up then its unlikely that they won't already be using it, they are 12 not 5.

It was a nice thing to do.

WaitMonkey · 26/10/2013 20:27

Lovely thing to do.Smile

KCumberSandwich · 26/10/2013 20:38

I think if their parents were very strict they wouldn't have let their young daughters wander around the shops alone.

what a nice thing you did, i bet you made their day Smile

PansOnFire · 26/10/2013 20:43

What a lovely thing to do :)

beginnings · 26/10/2013 20:44

Such a lovely thing to do. I love it when people do things like this :)

valiumredhead · 26/10/2013 20:44

It's the equivalent of the lovely lady in tesco giving me a huge wad of tokens for the cutlery I was saving for. I think of her every time I use themSmile

SeaSickSal · 26/10/2013 21:34

That was a lovely thing to do.

TheSlatternintheHat · 26/10/2013 23:01

Ahem ... I use a LOT of MAC makeup and primers! Smile And the "Back to Mac" scheme accepts all MAC containers (lipsticks, primers, powders, foundation, blushes, and yes, even the twist-up eyebrow pencils and eye liner containers). You can give them in at any MAC store or counter/concession in department stores.

I'm not sure if you get a receipt for it (I never really use the scheme myself - I tend to give my containers to friends and family that actually wear lipstick!) - unfortunately, I purchased another item with it and got rid of the receipt almost immediately, so don't know if the receipt covered the free lipstick I chose. The only thing that worries me is that they take the lipstick out of the cardboard packaging before they give it to you (presumably to stop people selling it on), so a skeptical parent may very well believe that it was shoplifted - ah well, the girls seemed so sweet that I'd hope their parents would believe them!

Glad to see the overall consensus is that IWNBU Smile

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