Ok so ds is 16 months, been at his nursery for 3 months now, does 2 days a week, settled in really well
so no problems till a couple of weeks ago i pick ds up from nursery he was screaming and crying, im told by the lady oh hes just tired (she herself was sat on a chair chatting to her friend with ds on her knee). so i get outside to get his coat with him and it was obvious he had pooed, i was just about to go back in when he ran off still crying so i thought im only 5 mins from home ill do it then.
I get in and immediately change him, he'd been screaming all the way home, then i see his nappy wasnt the 1s id supplied (was a size too small and wrong make), it was also wedged right up his bum making it really uncomfortable for him, hed pooed right through to his vest and his bum was red raw and he screamed when i tried to wipe him, probably from the nappy. I rung the nursery to just let them know could they be a bit more careful in future it was the wrong nappy and told them how it had been put on, she apologised on behalf of who had done it and i thought thats that then, everyone makes mistakes.
The next day i get a call from the manager apologising also on behalf of the lady who had told me she was just tired, and the reason she hadnt changed him was because she'd had a big night so was shattered, this was a wednesday, who has a big night on a tuesday?
So since then everythings been ok, today though i saw this lady for the 1st time since id rung up, she completely blanked me, instead of chatting to me about what he'd been up to i had his diary threw in my direction as she turned around to go back with the other children. I told my dp when i got in and he said she'd done the same to him last week. It makes me wonder what shes like to my son while hes there during the day.
Thing is i like the other staff but just this particular woman is making me think about pulling him out, that and for some reason hes started crying in the mornings when i leave him the staff are great and take him from me to go and get involved in whatever activity they are doing, last week for example this happened and id forgotten his bag so had to go home and come back with it, i saw what it was like when they didnt know i was there and the 2 staff were sat chatting together while ds was on his own half crying half playing, all the other kids in his age group were doing the same, i know they cant sit with them every minute but when hes crying i dont like the thought of him being left alone the way he was. am i making a bigger deal of this than needs be or am i right to think about changing nurserys?