My childrens father and I are no longer together, we ended around june, since then he's shown little or no interest in our two children, my daughter has serve scalp problems, and has been back and fourth from hospital due to it, anyway on wednesday I had an appointment for her at 9.45, my hospital is an hour away and I also have an 18 month old who is a really bad sleeper waking 2-3 times a night and struggles to get the sleep before midnight, so I had to wake up at about 8.30 despite being up most the night and get my dd to this appointment, anyway they wanted to do a biopsy on her, which involved giving her some medicine to make her drowsy, not that it did, she literally had to be pinned down by about 5 nurses in order to do this biopsy and it was very traumatising for my daughter and myself as she was covered in blood where the doctor was unable to stitch it (it only needed one stitch but she was hysterical) anyway we had to stay behind for half an hour after to monitor her and the bleed, which luckily she recovered well and didn't need the stitch, I then had to wait an hour at the hospital pharmacy to get her prescription, in this time I messaged her dad on whatsapp and told him some of what was happening, this was around 10 anyway at 12 I noticed he had been on, so had read it, but by 3 I still had no response from him! This obviously annoyed me. Anyway at 7 I got a message from him asking how the appointment went, I just said to him well you read what I wrote and ignored it, I don't appreciate being ignore especially when it concerns our child, he then sent me a very abusive message! How he's half brothers mum had died, and he's brother was heartbroken that's why he didn't reply and how I probably don't care because I'm a fucking self absorb cunt who just moans about everything!! I would love to know what part of that was me being self absorb? I was at the hospital for 5 hours for my daughter, yes its very sad he's brothers mum died but I still don't see how that would mean he couldn't respond, what does he think I would do if I was in that position? Put my kids in the corner for a few hours and ignore them because someone's mum died? It takes nothing to say "sorry I'm abit busy at the moment but we can chat later" rather than just ignoring it! I then got another message shortly after telling me "not to bother replying you fucking cunt" was I in the wrong? As I haven't heard from him since and he also said I should of asked why he didn't reply but surely when I messaged him he should of said sorry nows not a good time. Aibu?