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To wonder why the hell some people choose to drink themselves into an utter state ??

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ApocalypseCheeseToastie · 16/10/2013 02:22

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Tash28 · 16/10/2013 02:32

the mere fact that he has to be up in 4 hours and then at work will surely be a lesson Wink

VestaCurry · 16/10/2013 02:38

Make sure he's not driving into work.

NatashaBee · 16/10/2013 02:45

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plentyofsoap · 16/10/2013 04:42

He will pretend he wasn't that drunk. Therefore continue as normal just add extra jobs for him.

Moln · 16/10/2013 05:05

How likely is it that he will actually get up for work? if he's extremly druck it's unlikely he'll be sober in four hours.

I think that people don't notice, they have a few drinks and start to relax their ability to think through the consequence of another drink, until they've had several and the ability to care has gone completly.

LovesBeingOnHoliday · 16/10/2013 05:11

There's no way he will be at work in four hours defo still pissed and will smell of it and won't be able to drive. He needs to call in or he could get tge sack.

FortyDoorsToNowhere · 16/10/2013 06:06

I don't think he should be going to work.

My boss would send you home, get UPL and you would get a written warning.

I hope he has booked a taxi or planning to use the bus as he is in no fit state to drive.

zippey · 16/10/2013 06:14

It's like eating food. Sometimes you feel so hungry you eat loads, then when you finish, it only hits you 30 minutes later. By then youve eaten too much and you feel bloated and sick.

You tend to learn from experience though. Be sympathetic if its a rare event, let him go to work if he wants. He is an adult.

Dobbiesmum · 16/10/2013 07:22

Oh, yours went and watched the football as well then? Mine is currently snoring away upstairs after rolling in at WTAF time this morning...
He has to be up like, now to get to work on time because he left the car there yesterday. Was only going for a couple then coming home to watch the footy here. The only consolation work wise is that they'll all be in the same boat this morning (ie, tired and late) including his boss. I'm going to be sending him relentlessly chirpy text messages today reminding him of the fact it's self inflicted Grin
Oh and he has a meeting after work tonight so he's got a mad day ahead with very little time for relaxing.

ApocalypseCheeseToastie · 16/10/2013 09:19

Yes, the bloody football.

He was to be back at ten and planned on being sober as he had to be up for work Hmm

Luckily his boss is probably in a similar state and he doesn't drive, I am wondering if he can be arrested for cycling under the influence tho Hmm

He's back at 12 and if he thinks he'll be snoozing the day away he has another think coming. Angry

WTF does he think is attractive about a hairy arse troll, gibbering, drooling and weeping all night is beyond me, he's an idiot.

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Dobbiesmum · 16/10/2013 09:22

Just sent my first text, apparently it's very quiet in the office, have reminded him that they are middle age men who think they can drink like teenagers and it's his own fault...
Funny how I managed to watch the football without beer -had a cheeky G&T instead--.

Dobbiesmum · 16/10/2013 09:23

Strikeout fail...

KellyElly · 16/10/2013 09:23

It happens. As long as it isn't a regular thing I wouldn't have an issue. People like to get pissed when England win. We don't win much Grin

Dobbiesmum · 16/10/2013 09:28

The shock of winning would sober most people up I would have thought! Grin

stubbornstains · 16/10/2013 09:31

I think there is a tendency, especially in our British culture, to give yourself the permission to let yourself go completely. He was probably surrounded by people doing exactly the same, which doesn't help.

We have the longest working hours in Europe, social isolation, a traditional inability to communicate with others unless shitfaced...loads of stressors (speaking in general here, I don't know Mr Toastie personally). And then it's considered socially acceptable, cool even, to get really, really drunk.

Bloody hell, I was on a small business course recently, and made a reference to saving half a bottle of wine for the next day, and the facilitator said "Oh, what would you want to do that for? I never have that problem- I always drink the whole bottle in one night"- and the whole group tittered in agreement Hmm.

I speak as someone who regularly used to get too drunk right up until my mid 30s. It took 20 years and having DS to learn how to drink sensibly!

ApocalypseCheeseToastie · 16/10/2013 09:37

Oh and he was crying, ^crying^ because he'd had no tea. 'I've not had any tea cheesey' boo hoo......all, freaking night. Doing that sweaty faced, wet lipped thing.

Well guess what fool, you ain't getting any tonight either !!

And he wonders why I refuse to go out with him Hmm

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Rachel778 · 16/10/2013 09:39

Oh and he was crying, crying because he'd had no tea. 'I've not had any tea cheesey' boo hoo......all, freaking night. Doing that sweaty faced, wet lipped thing.

LOL ... This made me laugh . . Make him suffer OP.

Wilding · 16/10/2013 09:40

Just a warning - cycling if he's still under the influence is NOT a good idea. Although it's not illegal in the way that drink driving is, he can still be arrested for being unfit to ride through drink, i.e. if he was weaving around or cycling erratically.

I regularly cycle to work and around London and I never, ever get on my bike when I've had even one drink. It's dangerous enough cycling sober!

ApocalypseCheeseToastie · 16/10/2013 09:44

Good !! Roads are pretty much dead here so he'll hopefully be ok which is a shame as a clunk on the head may have done him good why he didn't just get a taxi is beyond me. Hmm

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CaptainTripps · 16/10/2013 10:33

I just don't get this desire to drink oneself into oblivion.

It seems we do it a LOT in the UK. Is it our Viking ancestry?

I genuinely want to know!

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