So, 2 years ago, DC1 popped out vaginally no probs. Quick labour, bad tear and stitches but all healed and no negative side effects.
Now 38 weeks with DC2 and he's breech. Options are c-section or ECV, then c-section if this fails. I'd just about decided on c-section but saw a different Dr this morning who said I'd be a good candidate for ECV and was pretty persuasive, so am now in two minds again.
Reasons for not trying ECV include the risk of placental abrubtion (small) but also an element of control in my own head. I'd rather know what I was letting myself in for than try ECV, it fail and end up in theatre anyway. Or try ECV, be induced and then end up with a c-section anyway, if that makes sense.
I'm in the US, not the UK, so pls don't comment on costs to the NHS etc as it's not relevant in this case. Everything is covered by health insurance so it's basically my call.
An extra consideration is that being overseas, we don't have family on hand (though my mum is coming over in a few days) so c-section recovery could be tricky with a toddler. However, I don't want to base my decision on that - if it comes to it, we'd have to get a nanny temporarily.
DH is trying to be supportive but to be honest, I don't think he could ever really understand somehow. So - wise Mumsnetters, would you go straight for the c-section?
TIA