I have an AP that frankly I feel is trying to take over my home.
She started really well, playing with children tidying children's bedrooms and doing light chores. She was a godsend. Me and my DH work full time. She is paid £100 a week and has every weekend off. Both children are in full time school.
My DH has been away for a few months and this is where it all starts.
Whilst he was away the chores became a challenge for her to do. The children have become miserable and don't find her fun. She stomps around the house with attitude.
My youngest is 4 and she expects him to act like a 10 yr old. She no longer likes to be apart of the family and sits upstairs to eat.
I had sky fitted in her room and she has the internet. I have asked her what has happened and she says nothing.
She has asked for more money because my son can be challenging at times( just being a typical 4 yr old boy)
She complains to me about everything and never focuses on the good things the children have done that day.
The food shop is becoming all about her and the whole thing is driving me mental.
She decided one day to change my kitchen round because she thought it looked better. I was so angry I told her to put everything back.
My husband has now been home for 3 days and it's like a new girl in the house.
On Saturday I stayed in bed and my DH got up with the children. She came down sat in the living room played with the children the cleaned the kitchen! She has never been down on a Saturday. This morning there is no sign of her. Not that I expect her to be but why did she do it yesterday? She constantly asking where my DH is.
She has started to discipline my children at the dinner table without clearing the punishment through me which I am so angry over. She has stopped them having afters if they don't keep their mouths closed whilst eating.
I am so angry I want her gone at Christmas but as each day goes by I want my house back. I feel I am loosing control. She never complains about the kids to my DH only to me.
Am I being over sensitive?